How to Keep Your Kids’ Routine Going (Even on Vacation!)

Vacations are supposed to be relaxing, right?

But if you’re a parent, you know that travel can bring a little more chaos than calm—especially when your child thrives on structure. The good news? You can keep a sense of routine while still enjoying a change of scenery.

Try to hold on to the “big” routines, like the morning and bedtime flow. Even if the day’s activities are totally different, starting and ending the day in a familiar way helps your child feel more secure. With that being said, keep brushing teeth, getting dressed, reading that same bedtime book—whatever your child is used to. These little anchors make a big difference.

Using a simple visual schedule can be super helpful, especially when your child is in a new environment. Whether it’s a written list, pictures on your phone, or a quick sketch, showing your child what’s coming next helps things feel predictable. You don’t need to plan every moment—just give them a general sense of how the day will go. Letting them help cross things off or check in with the schedule adds a nice sense of control, too.

Before big changes—like a long car ride, skipping nap, or staying in a hotel—it’s helpful to talk things through ahead of time. Keep it simple and upbeat, and walk them through what to expect. This gives your child time to adjust and ask questions. A little prep talk can go a long way toward preventing meltdowns when things don’t look or feel “normal.”

Remember that behavior might look different when the routine is off, and that’s totally okay. Try to keep your own responses consistent—what you say, how you say it—and offer breaks or downtime if your child seems overwhelmed. You know what helps them regulate, so build in those moments of calm where you can. It can also help to bring a few favorite things from home, like a stuffed animal, a well-loved book, or even their usual toothpaste. These familiar items can make new places feel a little more comfortable.

At the end of the day, it’s not about doing everything perfectly—it’s about creating a rhythm that helps your child feel safe and supported, no matter where you are. Keep it flexible, keep it fun, and know that you’re doing a great job helping your child feel at home—even on the go.